You may want to be in a relationship for long. But every time you feel you are coming closer to being unsingled, you find yourself going even farther from getting in a relationship. And unfortunately, more than often you are totally clueless as to why does that happen with you all the time. So, why is it so? Read on to find out.
1. You have set ridiculous standards and expectations from ‘the one’.
Having expectations and knowing what you want is good. But keeping unrealistic expectations and setting too high criteria to be met only ruins your chance at finding love.
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2. You hardly ever play you.
This is the worst mistake to commit. Pretending to be someone you are not leaves you unsure of yourself. Besides, how long can anyone keep on the façade? Once your true self comes into light it will feel like treachery for both your date and you.
3. You love yourself too much to love anybody else.
Self love is good. Even great. But only to a certain limit for after that it becomes selfishness. You have to see to it that your self love doesn’t hamper your care and dedication toward your partner and relationship. After you have learnt to give them the respect and love they deserve can only you imagine the alliance to work.
4. You concentrate on finding a catch and not on being a catch yourself.
If you want a fantastic person who can make you swoon with their personality, intelligence and behaviour you need to work on yourself too on those fronts. It’s but obvious isn’t it? If they don’t find you as attractive, why would they want to stay?
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5. You are too impatient, settle too easily or give up too quickly.
Getting and staying in a relationship is a strenuous process. You can neither jump in it too fast and without thinking nor can you give up on them without giving them enough chances to prove their worth for you.
6. You are too afraid to put yourself out there.
Shutting yourself up in a box and thinking the perfect guy would just dream of you and come knocking on your door is foolishness. You need to try all the aspects of finding a date than dismissing any as being a desperate or a lost cause. Meet new people, go places, make a dating profile, make new friends and be open to dating. You should try everything and take things in your hands than let it rest without giving it even a chance.
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