Some of you may wonder why it is that you get dumped all the time. It can’t be true that you are not good enough for anyone.
Then what is the issue? Here are some reasons you are getting dumped by someone you love every single time when you just begin to think, ‘this is it.’
#1 Trying to be someone you are not.
If you pull on a fake date face and try to be someone better than what you think you actually are, then things get tipsy. You are only juggling between your real self and your acquired alter ego. None of those does justice to your persona, and your date is left wondering who you really are. Furthermore, you will get some obvious signs you are about to get dumped as soon as your partner sees your real face.
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#2 Being too emotional and needy and not taking any responsibility for it.
When you have ‘needy’ issues where you constantly want to be with your bae and texting and calling them too much, it’s good to get attached to someone, but neediness is a big turn-off for anyone. Such an emotionally needy attitude makes your partner pity you, not love, and eventually, that pity turns into frustration.
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#3 Restricting yourself indoors and insisting on isolation.
Never hanging out with your friends or doing any fun outdoor activity and confining yourselves indoors every single time for a “peaceful us-time” no way helps to keep you ‘us’ for a long time. It only makes your relationship dull and your partner lonely, despite you being there. Now can that be a good sign?
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#4 Refusing to acknowledge your partner’s emotions, labeling them as being unreasonable.
When you are able to acknowledge your partner’s emotions & feelings, this can actually benefit your relationship. But not being a support pillar and ridiculing them or not listening to their story is a sure road to singledom again. Failing in reading your partner’s mind is a sign you are about to get dumped.
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#5 Putting no real effort into the relationship.
Another sign you are getting dumped by someone you love is when you are not active in a relationship as much as your partner is. You can’t go on taking for granted your partner’s efforts of keeping you together or doing sweet things for you because it’s natural. You need to reciprocate too. And if you don’t, well, it’s only time they recognize you don’t care enough and send you their final goodbye card.
#6 And when you let your true and real self go.
One of the biggest reasons for you getting dumped by someone you love is when you stop loving yourself & when you let your real self go. So never quit making yourself your priority as it’s a trait people out there love.
If you’ve never before paid attention to signs you are about to get dumped, here are some to read and think about.
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