Everyone wants to be the life of a party. You may have noticed a cute girl or say a group of girls and want them to notice you too, so it is time to bring in your A -game. So, this is all that you need to focus on.
When you reach a party, get your friends and reach for the middle of the room. This is how you will become the center of attention and the people who enter the room afterwards will notice you first and will naturally gravitate towards you.
Show off your skills. Attract people towards you by displaying your suave talent, be it some cool dance moves, a funny gig or your singing.
Move around. Don’t keep sitting in a corner and wipe yourself off from the scene, rather as the room starts filling, change your place every 15-20 minutes. Each time you go to the bar take a different direction, look around, meet people and make your presence felt.
Keep the big grin reserved for when you say ‘hi’ to someone known to let them know you are happy to see them.
Don’t hesitate to start a conversation. It helps break the ice especially if the other person is reserved.
Have some good jokes or funny responses up your sleeve. It always pays to make a girl laugh. However, don’t overdo it.
Don’t be afraid to touch, though keep it harmless. A firm handshake, leading a lady by touching the small of the mid of her back or offering your hand to request her for a dance exudes your confidence.
Keep your posture alluring. Lean at the bar, putting an elbow at the counter and take a look around. And while sitting, sit a little diagonally in your chair, in a comfortable position with one arm over the resting arm or back of the chair. It makes you appear in control of your body and projects charisma.
Excuse yourself at an appropriate time and let her watch you making your way, greeting and meeting different people warmly. This will make you seem attractive and leave her wanting more.
Return later to tell her again what a lovely time you had talking to her and to say good bye. This is the time when you also exchange numbers or ask her if she would be interested in an another party you have to attend on a later date or simply to go out for a coffee sometime.
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