The Date Doctor’s Ultimate Tips for Flirting Online For Dudes

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Avani is Truly Madly’s #DateDoctor and founder of where she and other professional counselors connect to answer questions about relationships, love and sexual health.
Hey studs! A lot of you have been asking me how to talk to the girls that you like online. Or, you say that the wonderful women you are matching with on TrulyMadly are not replying to your messages! The art of flirting online is necessary to learn if you really want to impress the ladies.
Set yourself apart from the rest with these tips and start the process of getting to know your crush better online …. But remember to always try to take the connection offline – you can’t hide in the cyber world forever!
1. Show you are interested in your crush clearly: be nice, compliment her, give her a boost – don’t withhold your affection at all …. Then she won’t know you’re into her.
2. Don’t ask her anything that you wouldn’t ask in real life to her face – like the color of her panties or anything else like that. Keep it clean and light.
3. Make jokes! Use humor to help make the conversation fun – and in your later conversations keep that same joke going (this is called using recall humor) eventually you will have lots of inside jokes only the two of you understand, and you’ll be able to laugh together.
4. Don’t use sexy language, not even as a joke. This is a huge turn off and will probably result in you getting blocked.
5. Give compliments, but don’t go over the top. You can tell her that she’s lovely, or that you like something about her but don’t make the whole conversation so sugary sweet with compliments that it seems insincere.
6. Ask questions to the other person and also share stories about yourself – but don’t spend the whole time questioning them or it will feel like an interview! Also, if you find yourself doing most of the talking/chatting – then maybe you are talking too much! Allow the person the opportunity to share back.
7. Make the other person feel special. Don’t send the same messages to other people – eventually they will sense it or you will be found out (the world is smaller than you think).
8. If connecting to a match on an App, make sure you mention what you liked about their profiles specifically – and make the contact really personal. Something more than a generic “hi” or “hello.” Whatever you do don’t send a first message detailing everything about yourself in a long boring paragraph – this will for sure put her to sleep.
The next time you are trying to connect with that cutie online or on the TrulyMadly App, use these tips and let us know how they worked! Remember, be friendly and funny and for the most part you can connect much better with all your online crushes!
Keep smiling,
The Date Doctor

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