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Conversation is the key to any good relationship. It can spark something beautiful or torch you. That’s why talking is great, but if you don’t know where to stop, it could cause trouble.
Here’s a bunch of things you should absolutely refrain from saying when you’re dating someone. In other words, how to date a girl & not get killed:
1. You’re Fat.
“Am I looking fat?” is a trick question, boys. If you think answering truthfully will get you brownie points, you’re highly delusional. No, she does not look fat, she looks beautiful and that’s how you survive!
2. No mean no.
No is a very strong word. Try to avoid it as much as you can. You can find a better way to say it. Like, “I’d love to but may be some other time,” or “May be we should try the other Chinese restaurant this time.” This shows that you acknowledge what your partner has to say, but you have your own opinions as well. It will help you build a good positive relationship.
3. My ex loved rom-coms, do you?
You’re really adventurous if you feel the need to remind your current partner how great your EX was. Sometimes it’s best to let bygones be bygones, and to look at your new relationship with a fresh perspective.
Every time you are tempted to bring your ex in the conversation, here’s a #ProTip – Abort mission.
4. Did you look at her?
Of course she did, but when you go pointing it out, you’re in for a lot of trouble. She may love the fact that you notice how interesting, or fun her friends are. But as soon as you point out how pretty or hot her friend or a stranger is, you’re a dead man.
Though these tips have to do a lot with men saying the wrong things, there are some things that women should avoid too. For instance:
Are you really wearing that shirt?
Lose the hat.
What sort of friends you have.
I really don’t get football.
What’s a bro code?
Steer clear of these judgmental lines and believe me, you will be a blessed woman!
Dating isn’t an easy job. It takes effort and planning and strategy. You have to tread on thin ice. So watch what you say, and hopefully these tips have enlightened you a little bit on how to date a girl and the things you need to avoid saying. If you have a few lines to add to this list feel free to write in the comments below.
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